Official Book Synopsis
In today’s image-driven world, nearly all of us deal with the struggles of comparison and self-worth. Nona Jones knows this mindset all too well. Throughout her life and in her recent career as an executive for the world’s largest social media company, Nona discovered how true confidence can only be achieved by defeating comparative thinking and securing our identity to God’s approval alone.
Join Pastor Nona Jones as she provides a fresh, biblically rooted perspective on the age-old human habit of comparing oneself to others. Killing Comparison will give you the tools you need to:
- Determine your true source of self-worth.
- Develop practical ways to conquer daily comparison.
- Learn how to control social media instead of letting it control you.
- Discover how to accomplish your dreams without comparing yourself at every turn.
Why This Book Resonated with Me
Have you ever found yourself comparing your life, your achievements, or even your sense of self-worth to others? Whether it’s scrolling through Instagram or silently wondering if you’ve fallen short of the version of yourself you “should” be by now, Killing Comparison by Nona Jones is the book you didn’t know you needed.
Let me tell you, this book came to me at just the right moment. It’s one of the most transformative reads I’ve had in a long time, and I can’t stop raving about it—or recommending it to anyone who will listen!
I didn’t just read this book; I felt it. Nona Jones has a way of weaving her personal stories and real-life experiences into the text in a way that feels like she’s speaking directly to you. Her openness and honesty made the lessons land in such a relatable, powerful way. I found myself reflecting deeply and having those “aha!” moments where something just clicks.
I’ve already shared this book with friends who’ve echoed my experience, and we’ve all agreed: this is the kind of book that sparks reflection and growth. I’d honestly love to do a book club discussion about it because there’s so much to unpack and apply to everyday life.
My Review
Killing Comparison tackles the age-old (and social media-fueled) trap of comparison. Whether you’re measuring yourself against someone else’s highlight reel, striving to be a version of yourself you think you should’ve become by now, or feeling like you’re simply not enough. Nona’s book offers a fresh perspective and challenges you to go deep to identify the root of these feelings.
There’s so much to love about Killing Comparison! For starters, the writing is relatable and easy to follow. Nona’s personal anecdotes bring the principles to life in a way that’s both inspiring and applicable. She doesn’t just share lessons; she shares herself, and that vulnerability makes the book feel like a conversation with a trusted friend.
I also appreciated the balance between practical advice and introspection. This isn’t just a book you read—it’s one you work through. And believe me, you’ll want to annotate, highlight, and take notes, which leads me to…
What I loved most is how the book is grounded in biblical lessons. Don’t worry—it’s not preachy or judgmental. Instead, the teachings are delivered with compassion and humility, making the book accessible whether or not you’re religious.
My Audiobook + Kindle Combo Experience
I started with the audiobook, as I often do, and was blown away by the richness of the content. But as I listened, I realized I needed to dig deeper—so I grabbed the Kindle version too. (Pro tip: if you pair the Audible and Kindle versions through Amazon, they sync up seamlessly so you can switch between listening and reading without missing a beat. Total game-changer!)
Having both formats allowed me to highlight and make notes on all the gems Nona drops throughout the book. If you’re someone who loves to mark up your books, I highly recommend this approach.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, like you’re constantly falling short, or if you’re stuck in a cycle of comparing yourself to others (or to an idealized version of yourself), Killing Comparison is for you. It’s also a great read if you’re looking for a faith-based perspective on self-worth that doesn’t feel heavy-handed or overwhelming.
This is a book that stays with you long after you’ve finished it. It’s one of those rare reads that not only challenges your perspective but also empowers you to embrace who you are—right here, right now.
Have you read Killing Comparison? I’d love to hear your thoughts! Or if it’s on your list now, let me know when you start—it’s the kind of book that sparks conversations worth having.
About the Author
Nona Jones is a rare combination of tech executive, author, speaker, and preacher. Her professional experience includes serving as Chief Content and Partnerships Officer at YouVersion, Head of Global Faith Partnerships at Meta, and Chief External Affairs Officer at PACE Centers for Girls, Inc. She is the author of Success from the Inside Out, From Social Media to Social Ministry, Killing Comparison, and The Gift of Rejection.
